Newsletter No. 8

As January comes to an end, I notice that I managed to complete only some of the goals. I finished reading 6 books. I also managed to keep a good level of variety in the selection:

  • The Ignorant Maestro by Itay Talgam
  • Should We Eat Meat by Vaclav Smil
  • Caste by Isabel Wilkerson
  • Elements of Journalism by Bill Kovach and Tom Rosenstiel
  • This is Your Mind on Plants by Michael Pollan
  • On Writing Well by William Zinsser

Of all the six, I recommend The Ignorant Maestro the most. You can watch Itay Talgam’s popular TED talk on this topic to see how this book explains what works in leadership and what doesn’t. The book gave a refreshing way to think about leading people that I have not yet read in any other book.

I also recommend Caste. Isabel Wilkerson uses the established framework of Caste system in Indian society to explain the structure of racism in today’s American society. I am grateful to a new friend from the dog park who recommended this book.

On something I failed to do — I never recorded and published January’s podcast episode. I planned and planned but the timing was never right. I am trying to improvise into the mic, which is new for me. In the last few episodes, I read from a script that I painstakingly wrote. So, a new task and a new technique is doubly challenging. I haven’t given up yet. I may just have to record two episodes in February to make up.

I launched a Patreon page to fund my podcast habit. This is one way for me to know if you like hearing what I have to say. It is also a way to keep me from selling Magic Cereal and Magic Mattresses every 20 minutes.

I am excited to start reading a new set of books in February!

Newsletter No. 7

Hey there, this is Abhishek. I’m grateful this week to write to a few new subscribers — thank you for joining!

I’m still experimenting with the style and voice of this weekly newsletter. I’ve written a couple of longer pieces and several shorter ones. I have hope that a pattern will emerge soon that will be harmonious with what I can offer and what you want to receive in your inbox.

I find myself on a cognitive-tug-of-war most Sunday afternoons. Sundays is when I write articles for my blog. Then, I turnaround and write this newsletter to you. Newsletter writing is to specific people whereas blog writing is to whoever stumbles upon my site. I have to switch my writing voice and style mid-way through the day. This is not exactly harmonious either.

Last week, I dug up several ideas I had jotted down from Fall of 2021. I also set off a short rant that had been bugging me the previous week.

The Problem is is that rant. The last week of January will prove if I was

In Negative Reinforcement, I attack my own difficulty in changing my mind.

I wrote about understanding Growth Mindset using the metaphor of a ratcheting wrench.

Zeigarnik Effect is a fascinating theory that explains the popularity and effectiveness of Todo list type apps.

In Habit Forming by Anticipation, I tackle one of the many tools I have relied on to build new habits and break bad ones.

Newsletter No. 6

I flew to California on Monday for work. I started my day at 5 AM in Florida, flew seven hours, then spent five more hours walking through a warehouse. I had been going for fifteen hours straight which left me sapped out of energy by the early California evening. So I excused myself from group dinner invitations, checked into the hotel and went to bed.

I awoke Tuesday morning at 2:30 AM California time which is 5:30 AM in Florida, my usual waking up time. Sleeping-in has a paradoxical effect on me — it makes me groggy for the rest of the day. On days when I sleep-in, I spend nursing a low-grade headache. With the clock showing 2:30 AM I knew sleeping-in would be a disaster for the busy day ahead of me. So I decided to commit. I got out of bed, fiddled with the little coffee machine, and sat down with my book.

The book was Caste by Isabel Wilkerson. I read around 80 pages between 3 AM and 6 AM. In Caste, the author makes a strong case to identify the role that long standing caste systems play in American and Indian societies, and the role it played in Nazi Germany. I was naturally hooked to the topic as I had grown up in India under the Caste system. It was a heavy book and I was grateful that the quietness of the early hour opened the space for the chaotic humanity the book exposed.

I was in bed early that evening and I woke up early on Wednesday again. I repeated this early morning reading schedule for the entire duration of my visit. Those three quiet hours of reading every day were too precious to give up! I never left the Florida time-zone.

Thursday, somewhere 30,000 feet over Tallahassee, Florida in a Boeing 757, I finished the 400 page book.

I am not a speed reader by any measure. I am prone to day-dream while reading. So I was surprised to complete a large book with a heavy topic in half a week! I had picked up several hours of reading during the long flights, and additionally 3 hours of daily reading during this visit. This reminded me of Casey Neistat who said air travel is the closest thing to time travel.

James L. Gibson says in his book Ecological Approach to Visual Perception that an environment provides us good and bad options for movement. These he called Affordances.

Business travel three timezones away provided the affordances to read uninterrupted (I have deputized reading to be a form of intellectual movement). My Florida home does not provide three uninterrupted hours to read on weekdays. I read in the morning for ninety minutes before life pulls me away. Feed the cats, make coffee, make the bed, get dressed, pour cereal, turn on the computer and start the workday.

There is nothing I want more than the routine of a harmonious life at home in Florida. Reading in the morning, albeit shorter, is not the same without one of our cats sleeping on my lap. There are obvious drawbacks to traveling all the time. I will tolerate with staying in hotel rooms, eating hotel food and drinking hotel coffee in short and temporary bursts. What I notice is the disdain of business travel has shifted for the better. The affordances of transit — cramped airplanes, noisy airports and hurried schedules — used to be a bother but have now morphed into gateways to a temporary world where uninterrupted reading can happen.

Business travel is starting to look like a portal to uninterrupted reading time. On a trip I don’t have to make the bed, do dishes, feed the cats and take out the trash. I go to work during the day, and when I am not working, I can read!

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I write this newsletter once a week but I post short articles daily on my blog. Here is what I posted last week:

Newsletter No. 5

CJ Chilvers and I emailed back and forth briefly. I have been reading CJ’s newsletter for many years. I find newsletters to be an engaging medium, partly because the subscriber has made a tacit choice in subscribing, and partly because the writer knows their’s audience’s intention and wants to make it count.

CJ send me a link to Mike Crittenden’s blog post about writing 5x more but 5x less. This advice was poignant. I tend to write on and on, tackling evermore large topics. Nothing wrong in writing longer text. However, unelss you write full-time, you produce long articles infrequently. Writing infrequently prevents formation of the habit of writing and sharing.

Austin Kleon further makes this point in his book Show Your Work. Writing longer means you show less work.

Another benefit of writing shorter — the brevity invariably leave gaps in the idea. These gaps are essential in growing ideas. Itay Talgam makes this case in his book The Ignorant Maestro and also in this very popular TED Talk on Leadership.

With this I posted five articles last week. This is a new habit for me and one I am hoping to stick with all year.

2021 In Review

Here I got into what worked and what didn’t last year. 2021 was a challenging but illuminating year.

Books I Read in December

I list the books I read in December. I had 10 days off from work which allowed me to finish six books, one of which was 530 pages excluding index and notes!

My Reading Habit

I have started reading more and this post explains how I am trying to do this. I am hoping this is a habit that will grow and morph this year. Just last week I finished two books but I lost harmony between reading and understanding.

Fleeting Notes

I go into the first step of understanding when I read books. Understanding gives meaning. Or else reading regresses into watching mindless TV.

Literature Notes

This is the second step of understanding. Writing Literature Notes is like re-reading the important parts of the book well enough to be able to explain it to someone!

I am traveling for work next week. This will be a good chance to practice reading in a very distracting and noisy environment of airport gates and airplanes. If I can be successful in reading on a plane, I will treat myself to a pair of noise-cancelling headphones!

Newsletter No. 3

I finshed reading Ian McEwan’s The Daydreamer. I kept looking for Leguin’s “Rhythm” in the book but I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. It felt like my mind’s eye was trying to focus on a fuzzy shape that never fully revealed itself.

I started reading Grace Paley, another author recommended by Leguin. The writing has that intoxicating quality that is so rare. It is literature like this that inspires the vocation of writing in me.

I can generally manage 8 to 10 hours of vocational reading and writing work after doing 40 to 50 hours of work-work. But last week was particularly busy at work. By 5 PM on Friday I counted sixty hours of critical pricing work and deadlines throughout the week. About 20 of those were deep-work hours in 90 minute stretches with no distractions and no email. For those who haven’t tried deep-work, it is like High-Intensity-Interval-Training compared to regular work which is like a walk on a treadmill while watching HGTV. Anyway, nothing other than work-work got done last week.

I did post a new podcast episode from my new podcast studio last Sunday. Thanks for subscribing if you listened to it! Recording is so much easier now that I have my own space. Most of the editing knowledge came back to me, largely because my past self left my future self notes in easy to find text files right inside the Podcast folder. Good job past Abhishek!

Unfortunately, new blog posts might be a little delayed in the next few weeks, but hopefully not much longer. We adopted a dog yesterday from the Humane Society. We named her Ruby. She is three, she had five puppies recently and her previous people surrendered her. We don’t know why those people surrendered this dog. She is sweet. All we know is her old people didn’t teach her any discipline. So she is an anxious mess in our home, possibly living indoors for the first time. To top it all, my wife and I are used to being parents to timid and well adjusted dogs. Just like Ruby, we also find ourselves in uncharted waters.

I am going to walk her for a good hour early in the mornings. Cesar Milan says this is the best thing you can do with your dog. But 6 AM to 7:30 AM is the time I usually block for deep reading and writing. I am not sure where the deep reading and writing block will move to yet. There is a good chance walks with Ruby will lead to clearer thinking. Who knows.

Right now Ruby is anxious and she needs walks. And a lot of love. And we all could use a lot of discipline.

Newsletter No. 2

Rhythm and cadence have occupied my mind this month. I am trying to pay attention to the rhythm in various things such as literature, how I do creative work, and how I like to take breaks. By paying attention to the natural rhythms I am trying to build a new rhythm of sorts.

Rational thinking, which dominates my brain, wants to set the metronome first and then cast the rhythm. I certainly tried to do so with this newsletter last weekend. I set the metronome to a weekly cadence — which I failed to do last week. I should have probably set the metronome after the rhythm has set.

Staying with the metaphor a bit longer… setting the metronome first would work only if I was trying to play someone else's music. What I am trying to do is find my own tune in exploring thoughts, ideas and skills. But nothing I am doing is new: blogging, podcasting, reading and thinking. Others do it more and better. It feels easier to imitate.

I see other creative people who I admire produce so much work and it makes me think I can do it too. But I need to remember that I spend 40 to 50 hours a week doing my day-job which is also creative and very analytical and takes a lot of mental energy. It also pays the bills. I can not share a large majority of the work I do in my day-job because we are under strict NDAs with our clients. So it seems that the work I can share is small and slow.

I don't want this to be an excuse. So I have started a time-block Plan from 6 AM to 6 PM for both, my professional job and my personal creative work. It is a challenging schedule but I deviated from it on only a few days in the last two weeks. By all measures it is working.

Here is the stuff I have written in the last two weeks:

Van Neistat

I discovered Van Neistat's new youtube channel. It reminds me of one of my favorite short movies on YouTube called 10 Bullets. Read the post here

Fiction and Non Fiction

I've been reading too much non fiction and discovered a hunger for fiction, like I was starved of something essential. I tried to explore that idea. I have to admit, my writing is not great in this one. As I read it now, it feels like I wrote before the idea had fully crystalized. Read the post here

Rhythm

I explore another rendition of the Rhythm thought with which I opened this letter. This time I hit up the writings of Ursula Le Guin. Read the post here

On the podcast front I am nearly finished writing the copy of my next episode. I am also close to having my recording studio set up so I don’t have to juggle the home computer that my wife also uses for her work. I should post the episode soon. You can find it listen on Apple Podcasts, Overcast, Spotify, and Stitcher. Search for "Sighthound Studio" on Google Podcast, or directly use RSS in your podcast app.